Monday, December 24, 2012

Physics - 3 Easy Physics Experiments For Kids

As a parent and teacher of home-schooled children it's important to know how vital science is in our everyday lives. It's also just as important to be able to relay that to your children as well. One of the best ways for children to learn about all types of science is by making it fun. Involving children in the scientific experiment process is a great way for them to get a "hands on" education about all types of science from biology to astronomy to physics. If you are looking for great ways to teach your children about the wonders of physics, try any of the following experiments.

1. Build a catapult! Every child likes to throw things and building a catapult is an easy thing to do. You will need a block of wood, plastic spoon, a spring clothespin, and some very strong tape and/or glue. Start by taping or gluing the clothespin to the block of wood. Tape the plastic spoon onto the clothespin, so the round part of the spoon is facing up. When you press down on the base of the spoon and let go, you'll notice you've created your own catapult. Use marshmallows as "ammunition", and test how far a marshmallow will travel depending on how hard you push the catapult down before releasing it and sending the marshmallow across the room. This concept illustrates stored energy, gravity, and the transfer of energy.

2. Make a tin-can telephone! This experiment works best with tin cans or paper cups. To learn more about sound waves, poke a hole into the bottom of the two empty cans or cups, and thread the ends of the wire or twine through the holes in the cans, knotting the end of the wire or twine to secure the string to the cups. Have your children take a cup and walk as far away as possible until the twine becomes taut. Then take turns speaking to each other, putting the cup up to your ear to listen, and talking into it to communicate with the other person.

Physics - 3 Easy Physics Experiments For Kids

3. Make an uphill siphon! You will need two glasses, two thick books, some plastic or rubber tubing, and clothes pins. Fill one of the glasses almost to the top and place it on the stacked books. Put the other glass on the table next to the books on the ground. Fill the tubing with water, and pinch the ends so the water doesn't run out. (You can use clothespins to do that as well). Place one end of the tubing underwater in the full glass and let go of that end of the tubing. Bend the tubing and put the other end in the glass that is empty. Let go of that end of tubing and watch the water flow uphill!

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Friday, December 21, 2012

Four Global Forces That Will Shape Organizational Culture for the Next 50 Years

Studies have shown that the forces, trends, and pace of the business environment have the single greatest influence on shaping organizational culture. But there are even more global forces affecting the business environment in subtle, but profound ways that define how organizations must interact with customers and respond to competitors in order to achieve sustained business performance. This article identifies Four Global Forces that will shape organizational culture for the next 50 years: a) Advances in Science and Technology, b) Global Redistribution of Knowledge, Power, and Wealth, c) Competing Political, Cultural, and Religious Ideologies, and d) Sustainability of the Physical Environment.

Advances in Science and Technology

The 20th Century discoveries in quantum physics that led to the development of solid-state electronics, information technology, global telecommunications, the media, and the Internet combined with the mapping of the human genome and the development of nanotechnology have changed our world forever. These scientific and technological advances have extended the biological range, speed, and accuracy of the human senses and enhanced our ability to communicate. The global village that has emerged because of our ability to know what is happening on the other side of the earth instantaneously has irrevocably changed the human experience of space and time that existed for more than 10,000 years. Despite the continued expansion of silicon-based memory, the information processing capability of the human brain remains more or less constant, so this global force places enormous and immediate stress on people's ability to manage ever increasing levels of data and information. Advances in science and technology will continue to have dramatic affects on the business environment and the ways in which organizational culture evolves in response. So consciously creating an organizational culture that effectively interacts within the frenetic changes created by advances in science and technology is a key strategy for controlling your organization's destiny.

Four Global Forces That Will Shape Organizational Culture for the Next 50 Years

The Global Redistribution of Knowledge, Power, and Wealth

Peter Drucker was a true visionary. In 1997, Drucker predicted that the under-population of developed countries in North America, Japan, and Europe and the sharply rising birth rate in developing countries had irrevocably changed the landscape of the world's economy for the next 100 years. Global advances in science and technology combined with demographics have flattened the playing field for emerging nations like India and China. For example, calls made by Americans to customer service centers are often routed seamlessly to technical experts in India or other emerging nations. Economic growth in developed countries like the U.S. cannot come from putting more people to work or from an increased number of domestic consumers, so it must come from the increased productivity of knowledge workers, which creates increasing pressure to do more with less. This trend will only intensify as the global redistribution of knowledge, power, and wealth runs its course. We believe that the global redistribution of knowledge, power, and wealth has already dramatically changed the workplace and will become one of the biggest issues that corporate culture must contend with. Consciously creating a corporate culture that mitigates the down sides and pressures of the global redistribution of knowledge, power, and wealth and identifies and capitalizes on myriad new opportunities is the key strategy for controlling an organization's destiny.

Competing Political, Cultural, and Religious Ideologies

For thousands of years, people around the world have developed different languages, cultures, religions, and political ideologies, often holding strong convictions that these belief structures were reality itself. Today's conflict about competing political, cultural, and religious ideologies is not so much a conflict about different beliefs as it is a conflict about the nature of belief itself. Typified by Stephen R. Covey's claim that we see the world as we are, not as it is, reality is now viewed as a social construct: reality is man made. Because the media makes it so easy to create and globally disseminate new structures of reality, the world has become an unregulated marketplace of differing ideologies that compete for people's time, attention, and resources. As traditional views are increasingly undermined, people become more deeply committed to maintaining and defending their way of life, sometimes even by force and intimidation. Many suspect that a new global super culture and global belief system is forming, but have little or no idea what that ideology will look like. As more and more people come to believe that reality can be constructed, the media-world becomes a kind of global stage upon which groups of people act out their reality in the hopes of convincing others that their way of believing is the way. Consciously creating a corporate culture that interacts within this global cultural relativism is the key strategy for controlling an organization's destiny.

Sustainability of the Physical Environment

The combined pressure exerted on our physical environment by the other three global forces has raised serious questions about the earth's ability to sustain the lifestyle of billions and billions of people. While the goal of a sustainable society is a popular notion, it has been difficult to implement, especially when it impacts business and economic growth. Some have tried to weave the theme of corporate responsibility and sustainable development into the fabric of the global business environment in the hopes of reducing the size of our ecological footprint on the earth. Others argue that the earth is the best teacher of sustainable practices, insisting that a more complete scientific understanding of nature's organizing principles can be applied to the design of a more sustainable, ecologically balanced society. Still others argue that we must mitigate the daily bombardment from the media to buy and consume products and services, and instead purchase only what we need from environmentally friendly sources. Some futurists argue that more rapid advances in science and technology hold the answer to sustainability. On this view, the modeling of carbon-based (human) intelligence in silicon-based computer systems, and our ability to manipulate biological and genomic processes are early precursors to our ability to break free of the earth as a life support system and develop alternative environments that do not require the earth's ecological systems as we currently know them. Regardless of the view adopted, the sustainability of the physical environment will continue to play a powerful role in shaping the business environment in which organizations interact. Consciously creating a corporate culture that mitigates the negative affects of this subtle, but powerful global force is a key strategy for giving an organization long-term direction.

Bottom-Line: Organizations cannot control the direction that these powerful global forces will take over the next 50 years, but they can control how they respond to these forces. In fact, Harnessing the Power of Culture(TM) within an organization and transforming it into a more predictable resource is the single biggest factor in transforming these challenges into a distinct a competitive advantage.

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Tuesday, December 18, 2012

How to Handle the "Guy Pull-Back"

Oh, the "guy pull-back." Some of you instantly know what I'm talking about while others may be scratching your heads and thinking, "Huh?" Trust me, you ALL know what I'm referring to. But in the interest of starting off on the same page, here's the basic definition of the "guy pull-back":

When a man, who pursued you in the beginning, eases up on the pursuit.

At its most benign, the "guy pull-back" will include (but is not limited to) the following behaviors:

How to Handle the "Guy Pull-Back"

- Calling (a little) less or not calling for a couple of days at a time.

- Wanting to see you (a little) less than he did in the beginning.

- Being (a little) cold, distant, or aloof.

- Acting (a little) less enthusiastic and certain of you and/or the relationship.

In its more extreme form the "guy pull-back" may manifest itself in one or more of the following ways:

- By completely blowing you off.

- By disappearing for a week at a time.

- By saying things like "I need space," "I'm not sure how I feel," and "It's not you, it's me."

- By putting forth little to no effort in sustaining the relationship or moving things along. Basically, he checks out.

Handling the "guy pull-back" can be one of the most frustrating and scary things a woman deals with in her relationship. And, unfortunately, our natural instinct is to "come closer" to our guy. I say "unfortunately" because that is the exact opposite of what you need to do. (And, more often than not, doing what comes naturally will have a disastrous outcome.) So here you go. Here's how to handle the "guy pull-back":

1. Minimize it - One of the basic relationship principles is the slower things go in the beginning, the less your guy will pull back. You know how I've told you that it's important not to be with your man every minute of the day? Why it's essential you don't give up your own life in order to spend time with him? Why you need to put the brakes on how often he wants to see you and to sometimes say "no?" How crucial it is not to jump every time he asks? Sisters, THIS is why. By being just outside his reach and just a tad hesitant, you create HEAT. You create burning desire. Nobody likes things that are too easy to attain; especially men. When he has to work a bit to attract and sustain your attention, when he's allowed the opportunity to miss you, that's when he's much less likely to pull back. So, in the beginning, your job is to stay cool. Let him initiate calls, texts, and dates. Let him pursue. And stay busy with your life so that seeing him too much isn't even an option.

2. The sex factor - After sex, most men will pull back to some degree. In a way, it's a bit of a test. He's probably wondering if you're going to act like most women before you and get all "girlfriend-y" and "relationship-y." Again, if he has to WAIT a bit, has to work for it a bit, the less he's likely to pull back. No matter what, after you have sex with a man for the first time, your job is to act like nothing's changed. You don't start calling all the time (or answering all his calls on the first ring). You don't get clingy or needy. You don't ask for reassurance about where you stand or where the relationship is going. You stay calm. You act no differently. And this will usually prevent the "post-sex pull-back."

3. Don't push him into pulling back - With the way many women behave these days, it's no surprise men pull back. You're not going to win his heart by baking him cookies, posting sweet words on his Facebook wall, or buying him things. In fact, the more you "give" in the beginning, the more he will pull back. The same goes for telling him "I love you" first, trying to pressure him into a relationship, or attempting to move things along quickly. Let HIM be the initiator. Let HIM be the first to say "big words" to you. Let HIM be the one to secure a relationship. If you push, he may indeed acquiesce. But I'll bet that, in the not too distant future, you'll have a boyfriend whose interest begins to wane. So what SHOULD you do? You should reciprocate. You should react. You should respond. Men need encouragement and positive reinforcement. But let him lead.

4. Be encouraging, not smothering - It's entirely possible your guy may be in pull-back mode through no fault of your own. Perhaps he has a work deadline looming, is dealing with a disappointment or setback, or is trying to handle a crisis. If so, and everything is otherwise on track with your relationship, you'll know this. Why? Because he cares enough about you to tell you about it. Sure, he'll probably still need his space; his own time to deal with it in his own way. I think it was John Gray in his book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" who called this "going into the cave." Your job is to let him. Men are often poor multi-taskers. They have trouble handling several big things at once.

So here's how you deal with the "crisis pull-back" - let him know you care and then let him handle it himself. Say something like this: "I know (or I'm sorry) you're dealing with/going through ___." I'm here for you if you need me." And then you leave him alone. Depending on the circumstance, I might be hesitant to even ask about it again. (Use your own best judgement here.) He may indeed pull back for a bit; go "into the cave." Allow him his time and welcome him back without reproach when he returns. And never force him to discuss his "feelings" with you. If he wants to, he will. And he'll be much more likely to do so if he doesn't feel pressured.

5. Don't believe the myths - When your guy is pulling back, you'll know. You'll feel it in your gut and will just sense that something is wrong. Don't make the mistake of listening to well-meaning girlfriends who may say things like "He's just busy" or "He's scared." Here's the truth: Men make time for what is important to them. If he's smitten, he won't go days without contacting you. It doesn't matter if he's sick, swamped at work, or studying for exams. No guy is too busy to send a quick text or to make a brief call to a woman he cares about. And men don't usually "get scared" because they feel intensely about us. Sure they "get scared," but it's usually because we've scared them away. So identify the pull-back. Call it out (in your mind, NOT to him please) and don't make excuses for him.

6. When he pulls back, let him - OK. Here it is; the crux of what we're talking about. You know his interest is lessening. He's still calling, but not as much. He still wants to see you, but is less enthusiastic. He just seems...distant. Things just seem...off. You're not sure why, but you do know that he IS; that they ARE. So what do you do? Let's first start with the converse, with what you DON'T do. You DON'T move closer to him. You don't ask "What's wrong?" or "Are we OK?" You don't start baking cakes or writing him poetry or buying him gifts. You don't initiate calls and contact. You don't make plans with him or ask him to meet your family. In fact, you stop all of that. You pull back, too. I like to say this: If he wants space, give him the galaxy. Be busy. Be hard to get a hold of. Go back to being just outside his reach.

You are friendly for sure. You are cool. You aren't mad, hurt, or disappointed. (OK, you probably are, but letting him know and getting angry with him will do neither of you any good.) But you let him know loud and clear - WITH YOUR ACTIONS - that his behavior is unacceptable and you aren't the type of girl to sit around waiting for him. And you certainly don't want to reward his bad actions with attention (either positive or negative). He doesn't call multiple times when he says he will? Guess what you do? You go out with your friends and don't return his call for a day. (Or better yet, wait until he calls again before answering.) Game playing, you say? Term it however you will. I like to think of it as showing a man how you will and won't be treated, in a language he understands.

Generally speaking, men don't respond well to women behaving all emotional and pressuring them to reciprocate. They don't like to answer questions such as "What's going on with you?" and "Why are you acting like this?" What they DO respond to is the fear that they may lose something important to them. Show him just how important you indeed are. And the way you do this is by giving him space, pulling back as well, and allowing him the opportunity to miss you. Pressuring him or even giving the illusion of heading towards him will cause him to shrink back further, and very possibly disappear altogether.

7. If he's seriously pulling away, let him go - Here's the "guy pull-back" in its extreme form. Basically is the "pull-away" or the "pull-out" and you're just a quick step away from a "break-up." If he's continually canceling plans, consistently choosing everything else BUT you, and making all kinds of effort to distance himself from the relationship - then, girl, we have a problem. If he's saying things that allude to him not feeling the same about you or is telling you directly that he needs time to think things over, then you need to let him go. It will come as no surprise that the LAST thing you want to do is to try to convince him to stay. Discussing things at length or attempting to negotiate some sort of resolution will do more harm than good.

So do yourself (and your self-esteem) a favor - no tears, no begging. No banging your head against the wall trying to get him to see things your way and from your perspective. No fights or arguments. If he's heading for the door, open it WIDE for him. Go black-out, midnight, not even a night-light DARK. Stay away from him. And use the time to resolve that you don't deserve someone who is willing to throw you aside. Do this and chances are good he will indeed eventually come around. But if (and when) he does, will you really want him anymore? Hmmmm.

I like to think of the whole "guy pull-back" thing as a kind of dating physics. What's that law of motion that Newton guy came up with? Oh, right, here it is... "To every action there is always an equal and opposite reaction; or the forces of two bodies on each other are always equal and directed in opposite directions." Those science buffs out there may think this is a crude analogy, but it's one I can wrap my brain around and picture in my head. Here's how it works out: He pulls back, you pull back. He moves away from you, you move away from him. It's simple, really. But here's what Isaac Newton didn't anticipate (at least when it comes to HUMAN bodies): Responding to his pull-back with an equal pull-back yourself will almost always cause another reaction - he will once again move toward you.

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Jenn Clark is an author, blogger, and all around "sex-pert." She put her two passions - writing and relationship advice - together and created the popular blog "Jenn X: 30Something & Single." She is the author of the book "How to Be a Goddess (A Step-by-Step Guide to Becoming the Woman Men Dream About...)," a monthly columnist for AVID Magazine, and a featured writer for a variety of websites. You can find both her and her blog at http://www.facebook.com/jennx30somethingandsingle and you can purchase her book at http://www.amazon.com/Goddess-Step-Becoming-About-ebook/dp/B006HBSWSS

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Friday, December 14, 2012

Force in Modern Physics

We are all pretty sure we know what force is. Gravity, for instance, is a force and gravity needs no further explanation. Newon was the first scientist to state the law of gravity in mathematical terms and for many years we thought that this was the final answer to what the law of gravity really is. Then cam Einstein, who found that Newton's law was only a good first approximation. Einstein's relativity concepts gave us a more accurate computation, which has been proved many times to give the correct answers for orbital and space trajectories.

By this time, therefore, we should feel reasonably certain that at least we know the answer to how gravity affects massive bodies, so that we can predict any result. It seems, however, that nature still has a trick or two up its sleeve. Back in the early 1970s, two Pioneer spacecraft were sent to take a close look at Jupiter and Saturn. After that mission was completed, they then went on into the outer solar system. Soon after wards, it was noticed that their velocities deviated from those predicted by Einstein. They were slower than they should have been, by some 5000 kms. per year. It seemed as though an unknown force, emanating from the sun, slowed them down. To add to the mystery, another anomaly was discovered with several spacecraft when they were sent round the earth in what is called a slingshot maneuver, to pick up speed before going on to various space missions. This time, they picked up more speed than they should have, only four millimeters per second, but easily measured. Of course, in both cases, all sorts of precautions were taken to eliminate errors due to faulty instruments, inaccurate measurements or any other extraneous factors that would have allowed existing theories to remain intact. It seems that we might need another bored young patent clerk doodling on a piece of paper, another Einstein to astound us by finally explaining a very enduring mystery.

And this would just be the mathematics that predicts motions of bodies under the influence of gravity. It would not explain what a force such as gravity actually is, or how it is transmitted. When we see a body falling to the ground under the influence of gravity, what we see is the body, not the force. What exactly is this thing, this something that has all matter in its grip in the entire universe? What did Newton have to say about this? After all, he studied this force all his life, surely he must have known what it was! We can turn for enlightenment to his first law, as given in the Principia Mathematica: "Every body continues in its state of rest or of uniform motion in a right line, unless it is compelled to change that state by a force impressed on it." In order to find out what Newton meant by "impressed force" , his Definitions must be consulted. Definition IV states: "An impressed force is an action exerted on a body in order to change its state, either of rest or of uniform motion in a straight line." Here, the definition is saying exactly the same thing (only the other way round) as the law itself. But the law should have been the result of repeated observations, confirmed and proved by experiments, as laid down by Galileo, not a restatement of the definition. It is clear that the difficulty lies with the definition, not the law. It tries to define what a force is by describing its effect on a body.

Force in Modern Physics

Before Newton, many thinkers had tried to define what gravity actually was, from magnetism to circular inertia to Kepler's idea of sweeping, broom-like arms from the sun and Descartes' vortices in a universal ether. Newton avoided this entire quicksand of speculation by concentrating on finding a mathematically expressed law that would fit the observed facts. But this did not enable him to answer two crucial questions: what was gravity (or any other force) and how (or in what medium) was this force transmitted? Newton was especially puzzled by the latter question. If the earth and the other planets are made to go round the sun by the force of gravity, what transmits this force? There is no physical transmitter between the bodies of the sun and the earth. During his entire life, Newton could find no satisfactory solution to this problem of action-at-a-distance. Einstein, in his treatment of gravity in the general theory of relativity, included a fourth dimension in his explanation of how the force of gravity functions. Put very briefly, he suggested that the earth's motion in this four-dimensional continuum was actually in a straight line. In our world of three space dimensions, this motion appears to be curved.

When quantum mechanics was developed quanta, or discrete particles, became involved in everything, even in forces. Quantum theory is very careful not to say that the force of gravity (for instance) consists of its particles, the graviton: it merely suggests that this force is transmitted by the particles. These are weightless and must be imagined as a constant stream between two bodies under gravitational attraction, going at no more than the speed of light.

The concept of force particles is more complex than these comments have suggested. For example, force particles are considered to be "virtual" particles, because they cannot be detected directly by a particle detector, as against "real" particles which can. However, theory indicates that gravitons, for example, can also exist in the "real" form - in which case they must be thought of as waves. Gravitational waves are so weak, however, that they have never yet been detected.

All this will show that even today, we have very little idea of what a force actually is and even its transmission is subject to a lively debate. Further discussion of this subject may be found in Galileo's Shadow, including the way the Higgs Field concept can be brought to bear on the controversy of what a force actually is.

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Sunday, December 9, 2012

Raising Your Young Adult - How to Deal with Stubborn Teenagers

The teenage years is a very difficult period not only for you as the parent but for you teenager as well. Most parents would ask how to deal with stubborn teenagers since this age is really where independence and individuality is cultivated. But you need not worry about this stage, a lot of parents have gone through their child's own teenage years and most of them have actually succeeded.

Here are some hints on how to deal with stubborn teenagers:

One way to deal with stubborn teenagers is to listen very carefully - most parents are not aware of it, but stubborn teenagers can actually result from stubborn parents. After puberty, most kids think they are already adults ready to face the world; luckily, parents are wise enough to know that this is not true. However, parents may think too little of their teens to a point that they still treat them as kids whose ideas are just kid stuff.

Raising Your Young Adult - How to Deal with Stubborn Teenagers

The truth of the matter is, the teenager is more mature than kids, albeit still not mature enough - this means that your teenager may have something to say about themselves or the way they wish to be treated. Listen to what they say first before saying what you think. Oftentimes, parents just stubbornly and automatically deflect anything their teens have to say, this in turn makes the teenager just act like their stubborn parents and become stubborn teenagers.

When stubborn teenagers give their perspective, acknowledge it even if you do not agree. It is important for stubborn teenagers to know that you have heard their opinion on things. But you do not necessarily have to follow it or agree with it, after all, in most cases, your teen may just be asking for your advice or if you have other ideas in mind. After acknowledging your teen's idea it is then you can say what you think should be.

To deal with stubborn teenagers, imagine yourself in your teenager's shoes. You were also a teenager years or decades ago and you should know how difficult such times were. But do not dwell too much on your own experiences because your teen is probably facing different challenges in life. A lot of parents say things like "I know better because I have been there" in hopes of preventing their children from doing something. But that is actually an invitation for the child to be even more curious of such circumstances.

Another way to deal with stubborn teenagers is to avoid making use of labels when talking to your child, especially during arguments. Labels might sound meaningless when you blurt them out, but they can easily get into your teenager's mind whether the label is positive or negative. It is important to allow your teenager to let him or her self be without labels being attached. Otherwise, stubbornness might stem from your teenager's effort to veer away from the labels.

Try to avoid debating with your child about matters of opinion. Even if debates occur to convince a party of your opinion, what it actually does is to strengthen the other party's hold on their opinion as both of you create reasons for believing your stand. In this case it is better to show why your opinion might be better and allow your teenager to see for himself or herself what makes you think you are right.

Stubbornness is somewhat inevitable for teenagers, but it might actually be a necessary trait at this point where they are developing their identities. What matters is that you are there for them at this critical stage with much love and understanding. With an open mind and a sound heart you would be able to know how to deal with stubborn teenagers.

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